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 Quick administrative note before I get into the rest of it: I've changed my policy about who I'm granting access to my locked posts to. I didn't have any problem that precipitated this. So, if you are finding yourself suddenly dropped, please don't imagine it's because you did anything wrong!  I've decided for simplicity's sake that I'm only granting access to folks who subscribe to me. I'm doing this in part because I discovered that I was following a bunch of dead accounts, all of whom still had access. I just figured that while I was there, I might as well make everything consistent. The chance that I will let you back in if you ask is incredibly high. In fact, if you'd rather not subscribe but still want see my locked posts, just drop me a request. I apologize for any disruption in your service, as it were!

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Okay, so.  I can't believe it's already noon and I've accomplished next to nothing.

It's kind of been like this since last Tuesday, however?  

The specifics of this morning go like this. Shawn and I got up and were doing our usual things when we realized that we needed to get our car off the street by 7 am for the street sweeper. So, I threw some lunch together for her (I have been making bento for Shawn since we bought a fancy, double-decker bento box several years ago), and we rushed out the door without breakfast. We decided to stop at Brugger's and although we're enough of regulars there that the guys behind the counter start making my sandwiches before I order, I really need to change that order because my GERDS can no longer handle the Swiss and sausage egg sandwich. But, as I'm sure some of you can relate, 1) it feels too hard right now to ask them to change the order, and 2) honestly, the kindness of the gesture is worth the stomach upset. Like, I need small kindesses so much right now, you know? 

I got home and did some of my usual morning internetting, which no longer involves checking social media. I have largely given up being on Facebook, outside of using it as a place to post cute pictures or pictures of food I am making or have made. If you want to follow me on a social, I am at Bluesky: @lydamorehouse.bsky.social

homemade hot-cross buns (half-eaten tray)
Image: half-eaten tray of fresh, homemade hot cross buns

Then, my alarm went off reminding me to get ready to record my podcast with Ka1lban. I was also working on a new review for MangaKast, which I have not updated in well over a month, and so I didn't really notice the time go by... until it was almost a half hour past when he usualy shows up. I dropped a note to him in Discord, wondering what was up--but apparently he doesn't get notifications from that... and anyway, he hadn't been planning on recording today, anyway, unbeknowst to me. 

This is where things start to feel very abortive, you know? Like, I'm all prepped for something that just isn't happening. 

I'm a little worried that something similar is going to happen tonight as well. I'm supposed to be running a Thirsty Sword Lesbians game at 7pm for a new group that I've assembled. I am embarrassingly prepared.  Like, it's a cyberpunk setting and I made two little mini movies of "found footage" for this group (if they follow the right clues!!) This is part of what I did to occupy my time while we were waiting for the news last Tuesday night, so I mean... it wasn't like I could concentrate on anything else. 

But this morning one of my players, [personal profile] haddayr , emailed to say that she's feeling too sick to fully participate. She's going to try to listen in, but no garuntees. This is our very first session? Players (at least the first one to respond, anyway,) made it clear that they are willing to go ahead without her, but... given how today is going so far, I'm sort of waiting for the other shoe to drop. 

To be perfectly clear, it would be okay if it did. I have learned from my other online groups is that it's always best to have at least two dates arranged ahead of time. So, if we have to cancel this time, we KNOW when the next session is supposed to be. It's already on the calendar. 

It's more that this has just felt very typical of almost all my days since last Tuesday. I feel very much like I can't get my feet under or, when I do, it's for something that is no longer happening or gets postponed or just doesn't work out for whatever reason. 

How are the rest of you doing?
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 bread made from steel cut oats
Image: bread made from steel cut oats (leftovers).

Yesterday was Mason's TWENTY-FIRST birthday. For some reason, despite the fact that he's been an official adult for some time now, 21 feels... old. Like, I have a grown-up child all of a sudden. It feels very weird.

At any rate, we had a lovely day. Shawn took the day off and I cancelled all my usual plans.

However, we didn't have a huge agenda. In fact, one of the gifts Mason wanted to give himself was a long, solitary walk--for three hours. One of the things Shawn and I have been doing when we have spare time is to go through the zillion and a half cookbooks we've collected over the years. In one of them--a vegetarian cookbook from 1978--was a very gnarly recipe for bread using leftover steel cut oats (though I think their recipe might have called for oat groats.. I know for sure that it absolutely wanted wheat germ.) At any rate, I thought to myself, "Huh, I have some leftover steel cut oats in the fridge. I wonder if there is a modern recipe out there for bread that could use those up?" SURE ENOUGH. I found one immediately. 

Unfortunately, this recipe made THREE LOAVES of bread. I... do not know what we're going to do with so much oatmeal bread??? It's tasty, but very.... let's just say it still vibes very 1978. It is... CRUNCHY in a granola-head way. My family is very uncertain about the steel cut oats because my family mistrusts any food over three days old. Mason generally laughed to see me making this stuff and rolled his eyes because he has noticed that I've been gravitating towards these kinds of cookbooks lately. I've been threatening "something with tempeh" for dinner for several days now. This is an empty threat... mostly (though I did buy some when I saw it was still in the stores.)

Is it nostalgia? Maybe? Although my mother never cooked like this. I didn't even really hang around people who did, either. I think it's some version of FOMO nostalgia. Like, I always thought the hippie granola-heads were COOL in the 1978s, so now I am attempting to be one. Which is so me... because now is not the right time as finding bulgur wheat is damned near impossible these days. I know because I looked for it a couple of years ago and EVENTUALLY found somewhere unexpected (I had STARTED at the coops, and maybe found it at Target??) Anyway, the point is, I not sure anyone even really liked this food when it was popular. I am probably chasing some FOMO nostalgia I won't even be happy to have recreated. :-)

And now I have three loaves of it. As it were.
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Chocolate bunny in a fancy bowl 
Image: Chocolate bunny in a fancy bowl

Mason's longtime bestie, a lovely nonbinary person named Grey, happened to be in town for a mock trail competition at the same time as Mason's Spring Break. The two of them concocted a plan wherein Grey would stay with us until they needed to head back to their school (in Iowa.) So, we have had a houseguest for a week. It's been nice and so we wanted to send them off in a grand style. Ostara, Spring Equinox, is not for several days yet, officially, but we always retain the right as Wiccans to call on Pagan Standard Time (which is normally a joke about tardiness to rituals, but which we use to say that we can celebrate our holidays anywhere in the vicinity of their actual day.) So, we treated Grey to an early Ostara High Tea.

Shawn's amazing jelly roll
Image: Shawn's amazing jelly roll.

We pulled out all the stops. Shawn made an incredible (perfect!) jelly roll (sometimes called a Swiss roll), I made pierogi, Ukrainian potato balls (pampushki), scones, little egg tarts, and we had fruit and faux mimosas... and, OF COURSE, tea.  The jelly roll was a huge hit. Shawn used strawberry jam and orange marmalade for the filling. I think Grey was impressed. To be fair, we love setting the table to impress.

Early Ostara Table Setting 2024
Image: Early Ostara table setting (2024)

Mason, like me, always enjoys playing host. He took Grey book shopping and they both came home with arms full. We also had the entire Mock Trial team in our basement playing video games at one point. Mason and Grey went off to the Mall of America to meet up with more friends at some point, too. It's been such a socially busy week for us, I find it deeply amusing to report that, after waving goodbye to Grey, the three of us immediately collapsed into bed and took a long afternoon nap. 

Happy early Ostara to those who celebrate it!
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Cardamom buns on parchment paper, fresh from the oven.
Image: Cardamom buns on parchment paper, fresh from the oven.

The recipe might be behind a paywall, but I got this one from our local newspaper, the Star Tribune: https://www.startribune.com/ring-in-the-new-year-by-baking-cardamom-buns/600130101/.

I told Shawn when we decided to make these on Sunday that I felt like, because it was NOT YET February, we could still TECHNICALLY consider ourselves "ringing in" the New Year.

Regardless, they were delicious.

I notice that I didn't report on anything else that happened over the week, since my last HeyGo round-up. I apologize for being so remiss. Part of it is that I am finally starting to feel the malaise that so many of my friends have felt since the beginning of the pandemic. This frustrates me because I normally find a lot of value, even joy, in the mundanity of life. I am totally the sort of person who considers a trip to the pharmacy as "a side quest." But,. lately, I've been struggling to find the day-to-day interesting, and I don't quite know what that's about.

My current hope is that this, too, shall pass.

I did want to talk about one thing of interest that happened over the weekend. Shawn and I went to the Roseville Ramsey County Library on Saturday because Shawn has a standing "order" with the Friends of the Library to pull any Minnesota related cookbooks for her--we're talking about all the church, synagogue, community cookbooks that are hyper localized. She buys them all, and, because she works at the Minnesota Historical Society, she'll check the history center's library's catalogue and see if there are any that the history center doesn't already have. Whatever they don't have, she donates. On Saturday, we brought home THREE grocery backs full of these quirky community cookbooks and most of them will be going to the history center.

If you're wondering WHY anyone would collect such things, there was a lovely article that was picked up by MPR that went around during the holiday season specifically about Minnesota cookbooks, https://www.minnpost.com/arts-culture/2021/12/the-enduring-appeal-of-the-minnesota-church-cookbook/, in which a member of Shawn's staff was interviewed about the history center's collection.

One of the ones I was looking through yesterday wasn't a church cookbook at all, but the cookbook of the local "linemen," the folks who work on electrical lines. The recipes were kind of terrible?? But, the story of how the cookbook came to be was pretty fascinating.

I am not one of those people who reads cookbooks like novels, but I do LOVE thumbing through them, especially the very, very old ones. I'm sure everyone out here already knows about this TikTok guy, Dylan Hollis (I linked to his YouTube, but you can always find him on TikTok), but if you've never watched his "cooking" show/60 seconds, you really should.




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By chance I read [personal profile] yhlee 's DW journal when he made a recipe from the Overwatch cookbook.

A surprisingly good cookbook based on the Overwatch game franchise.
image: Official Overwatch cookbook


I instantly perked up because Mason LOVES Overwatch. Like, CRAZY loves. It's more than just a game he plays with friends. He obsessively follows the e-sport.  In fact, when we visited Los Angeles and [personal profile] rachelmanija last year, we went to a live Overwatch competitive game. His social group is basically friends from an Overwatch Discord.

So, a cookbook? That seemed to have usable recipes?

I had to get it for him for the holidays.

Amazon didn't think it would arrive in time for actual Christmas day, but it did!  On Christmas eve night, in fact, we tried Genji's (soy and chicken broth-based) ramen. SO GOOD. The picture is missing the soft-boiled egg because I FAILED soft-boiling three times.

ramen
Image: Homemade ramen sans softboiled egg (because I fail), but wildly delicious soy and mirin based sauce. 


I made this with some chicken thighs I had in the freezer, even though the recipe calls for chicken breasts. The thighs were INSANELY good in this. I didn't actually miss the egg. I am also a loser who just used ramen noodles from the 35 cent packages. 

The recipe asked for:

2 chicken breasts (I used thighs, about eight or however many were in the package)
1 tablespoon of butter
salt and pepper to taste

What Genji has you do is fry up the chicken just enough to crisp the skin and then pop it in the oven for a cook at 375 F for fifteen minutes or so.  In the meantime, you simmer the broth, which is basically garlic, ginger, shallots, 2 tablespoons each of soy and mirin, and then about four cups of chicken stock. Ideally, you have some you've made yourself, but honestly it was pretty damn good with just canned chicken stock from the grocery store, which is what I used. 

That all just simmers for the time it makes to make the chicken then, ideally, if you are not a loser like me, you manage to soft-boil an egg or two and then assemble everything once you've poured the broth over the noodles. I happened to have nori, but no shitake mushrooms, and honestly at this point in ramen, it's whatever toppings you like. 

The recipe was so good, but so simple that we decided we would just start cooking our way through this cookbook. So, today, I made Sombra's conchas.

cute little blue hatted concha on a vintage plate.
Image: cute little blue hatted concha on a vintage plate.

These are amazing.

I just inhaled three of them without stopping to breathe. So good. Holy crap.

The recipe is also really easy to follow. You basically make a sweet dough and then separately make this little hats, which are granulated sugar, vanilla and flour (and food coloring. The book suggests making three, so I made red, the blue you see, and purple.)  I'll write it out for you, because I know everyone will want to try these.

Dough:
1 cup of warm whole milk
1/3 cup of unsalted butter or lard (<-- I used LARD. Always use lard in Mexican recipes if it is offered as an option.)
1/3 cup of sugar
2 teaspoons of active, dry yeast
pinch of salt
1 egg
3 1/2 cups of all-purpose flour, plus more for dusting

Topping:
1/4 cup of softened unsalted butter (I didn't have unsalted around. It doesn't seem to have made a huge difference.)
1/3 cup granulated sugar
1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract. (If you want to be authentic here, you could use Mexican vanilla. I didn't. I used to have it around thanks to my parent's trip to Mexico, and I will tell you even if I had had it, I might not have used it. I find the taste to be much STRONGER.)
1/2 cup all-purpose four
food coloring of your choice.

TO MAKE THE DOUGH:
When I do this I tend to heat the milk, sugar and lard together.  Also because I am terrible at using a thermometer to make sure the milk isn't too hot for the yeast, what I do is put a cup of flour with the yeast mixed in in the mixer and then pour the milk mixture on top. Add the egg, and then add the remaining flour a bit at a time as the mixer is running. I have a fancy Cuisinart mixer that has a dough hook and I love using this for these kinds of soft, sweet, sticky dough. Once all the flour is incorporated, you hand knead just enough so that the dough springs back into place when pressed with a finger.

Return the dough to greased bowl (I used butter here) and cover with plastic wrap. Let it rise for one hour, or until doubled.

TO MAKE THE TOPPING:
This is basically a sugar paste. Mix together butter, sugar, and vanilla until smooth. Add a little flour at a time until you have a thick paste. Divide the paste into three equal parts and mix the in the food coloring to your liking. I will note that for me, a little extra flour was needed at this stage because the food colorings added liquid.

Roll out each ball of topping past to little under a quarter inch thick. Using a cookie cutter (I used a pastry cutter) or small glass, but out four founds about 1 1/2 to 2 inches across of each color. (I ended up with ten instead of twelve, so I just made ten buns instead of twelve.) Slide one disc at a time onto a spatula and gently score it with decorative shapes using the cookie cutter (I just used a knife?) being careful not to cut all the way through if you can. (This is important because they will separate more on the second rising!)

TO ASSEMBLE:
Preheat oven to 375 F

Once dough has doubled in size divide it into 12 equal parts (or ten or however many hats you ended up with). Gently fold the pieces of dough over and pinch together on the bottom of each bun to form a smooth ball. (Not sure why this direction is so careful, I tore off equal sizes and jammed them together to make round rolls and they were fine?) Set these on a baking sheet lined with parchment paper, pinched side down, and brush tops with water.

Slide finished sugar paste round onto the top of moistened bun. Repeat until all the buns are covered. Let them rise for another 30 minutes.

Bake at 375 F for 15 to 18 minutes (I always split the difference and put them in for about 17) until the buns are just turning golden. 

EAT THEM ALL

multi-colored conchas on a pan
Image: multi-colored conchas on a pan
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 frog whimsy in the garden
Image: Man, you can tell how dark my shade garden is, can't you? Also my faux bird bath with petunias and a frog statue.

I think it's pretty obvious that Mercury is Retrograde. Scandals are roiling through the SF/F community once again, our internet dropped for a good solid six hours yesterday (ahead of the storm,) and I tried to slice my pinky off while doing the dishes yesterday evening.

That damned mischievous planet doesn't go direct until July 12.

And before anyone asks: no and yes, okay? No, I don't really believe in astrology. I do not actively base my life on the movements of the sun, the planets, or the moon. Does it entertain me? Yes, and at the level of Tarot, which is to say I have moments of being rather serious about it, while not taking it SERIOUSLY, if that makes sense. 

As for the scandals, I'm not sure where to begin. I normally am not a big Reddit fan, but this person has a nice round-up here: https://www.reddit.com/r/HobbyDrama/comments/hgbjry/fantasy_books_a_number_of_authors_are_coming/

So, I did what I often do when things get sh*tty. I made a pie.

a bubbly red rhubarb and strawberry pie with lattice work top
Image: lattice work pie, including goofy heart-shaped cut out. A good-looking pie that we didn't actually cook enough so the rhubarb stayed kind of hard. Alas!
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 When I signed up for the OutFront MN Zoom event called "Drag Queen Cookies with It Gets Batter," I initially thought I would be making cookies WITH drag queens, which, frankly, sounded like the epitome of fabulous.

However, it turns out that I had signed up to learn how to make a five-minute fondant that would be designed to look like drag queens.

Alas!

But, it was still a pretty fun event.  They sent along a recipe for a sugar cookie and asked us to make the "blank faces" ahead of time. I happened to have an egg-shaped cookie cutter (for Easter Egg cookies, I think, though this MAY be the first time I have ever used that particular cutter.) So, I made those Friday afternoon. They were pretty yummy on their own and since I had way more batter than I figured I'd need for a hour long event, I made the rest into the usual assortment of dragonflies, dinosaurs, cows, and chickens.  

At 7 pm, I dialed into the Zoom. The OutFront folks had us use a password, because Zoom bombing is a thing and this was "queer youth" led, so I mean, yeah, safety first.  Even so, we still had one guy who did no cooking, but just watched the event. Creepy or sad? Hard to know.

At any rate, there were probably no more than a dozen of us on the call. Basically we watched our host make fondant and tried to follow along as best we could. It was not the most organized Zoom event I've ever attended? But I'd say my results were fairly fabulous, nonetheless.

drag queen cookie... very cartoonish, which is easy to do with the fondant, which basically is food playdough
Image: cartoonish face with large hair, all of which is easy to do with fondant because it basically functions like sugar-based play dough.

I was also aided in this process by the fact that I happened to own baking markers. Yeah, like magic markers that you can safely eat. I did all of the "eyeliner" with these markers.

windswept hair and sultry-eyed cookie
Image: windswept-hair and sultry-eyed cookie.

The fondant itself is not especially tasty, I must say. It is made with marshmallows and powdered sugar and two tablespoons of water. So, I mean, it takes like sugar? I feel like you could add something--lemon, peppermint, or even boring vanilla--and make it more tasty. 

If you are a fan of the local drag queen/king scene in Minneapolis/St. Paul, It Gets Batter is doing a fundraiser for out-of-work drag kings and queens in which they make cookies specifically for your favorite performer, which seems like a nifty charity.  I personally wouldn't have a clue, though I did like watching the Gaylaxicon event with Queens of Adventure.

I enjoyed the baking thing enough to sign up for a Gay Twin Cities virtual walking tour (it is also free)  later this month, which is TWO TIMES as many Pride events than I normally attend in June.

I am one of those old queers who grumbles about how commercialized Pride has become. I don't usually complain very loudly, honestly, because I definitely prefer a world where I can buy my Pride gear at Target rather than having to hand make it at home, hide somewhere to change into it, and then be terrified to wear it in public. And, I do remember those days. They were NOT the good old days; I'm just not fond of crowds.

Of course, no crowds this year, regardless. 

One of the things OutFront is sponsoring tonight that I'd really like to go to is a candlelight vigil for black, trans and gender non-conforming voices at Elliot Park.  However, if I am reading Google right, this park is the one near former Augustana nursing home and parking around there is nightmarish. I still have some time to decide, but I will be there in spirit. If nothing else, I may light a candle on my altar at 7:30 pm in solidarity.

Otherwise, the big excitement of this weekend was that on Saturday, a package arrived from Taiwan. [personal profile] jiawen sent along a care package of bits and bobs of stationary and fun pens and erasers and pins and tea and just a whole lot of lovely things. It was like Christmas in June. I am only sad that I did not think to get her on jitsi BEFORE I opened the box, so that we could have opened it together, but we did chat and I basically squeed happily for a half hour straight. So, that was desperately fun. If you are a pen pal of mine, expect some fun new stationary in your next letter from me.

Friday afternoon, Shawn and I also hazarded a trip to the fabric store which is exciting in these days of the pandemic. Shawn was able to browse pretty well, but that was because I volunteered at tribute and stood in the line for cutting. I was a bit shocked to discover so many people without masks. My friend [personal profile] naomikritzer and my wife both suspect there's some kind of Republican/Trump-supporting bent to the crafters who shop at JoAnne's and I suspect they're both right, though I wish I understood why that's true. Shawn suggested that it's a "homemaker" bent. Like, the kind of woman who learns to sew is more likely to be the sort to stay at home to support her man?  I dunno. I want it to change. Surely, I shouldn't have to go to a more expensive store just to hang out with the other liberal crafters.

I did pick up some more quilting fabric, though, including some Avengers fabric. So, that was worth it.

Today (and most days, if I'm honest,) I also dithered around the garden and discovered a baby native pollinator. 

a caterpillar nomming a parsley stalk
Image: a striped "parsley worm" nomming my parsley, probably to the ground, but she will transform into a native pollinator: the black swallowtail butterfly so she gets to have all the parsley she wants.

How was your weekend?

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 I am sitting down to write this to you a little later than usual during the day. I just spent the morning, while it was cool and before the supposed thunderstorms roll back in, turning the compost pile. 

black gold as they call it. Basically compost is rotting dirt, Yay?
Image: a bunch of dirt. I am uncertain what I thought you'd see here? "Black gold" as some gardeners call compost?

I once took a master gardener class in composting. I tell you this because I am objectively fairly terrible at composting. I do what I believe experts call "the slow method," which is to say: nothing.  Or rather, next to nothing. I put together these lovely bins which actually work surprisingly well. After all, here we are, years later, and I can, in fact, still unclip the little holders keeping the fence together and swing open a "gate" to get at the dirt.

One of the few things I do, however, is periodically flip the compost and move it from one bin to another. 

And add to it, of course. In that lovely dark compost pictured above is all my yard waste, kitchen scraps, and... a sock, a couple of Legos, and weird plastic bits of garbage that find their way in due to living in a busy urban area. I honestly think one of my favorite things of turning compost is discovering what ended up in there accidentally. One year, I found a pair of my glasses. 

Oddly, that was fun. Tiring, but weirdly rewarding, as I shoved out all of the super dark dirt and mulched it around my various gardens. Surprisingly, there wasn't  a ton, so I spread some in the O-Jizo-sama garden (aka the established shade garden) because it has always had pretty poor soil. Every year, it seems to sink below the line of my lawn, the plants are so hungry for nutrients. The other place I amended the soil was where my jack-in-the-pulpit and the baby jacks are kind of struggling. Hopefully, this will help? I'm also making plans for a trip to the garden store to get some other soil amendment stuffs.

So there you go. Several paragraphs and a photo about DIRT.

We are still waiting on the results of Mason's COVID test. Hopefully, we will hear today.  The phone rang just now and I jumped up to get it thinking that was it, but for some weird reason I couldn't actually pick up the phone (this is our ancient landline.) I'm sure Mason gave his cell phone number to the health care workers, anyway. I am annoyed in general the extent to which telemarketers have taken advantage of the fact that we all kind of have to pick-up unknown calls these days, since it can be test results or an tele-appointment or, in our case, sometimes Mason's teachers making a checking-in call.  

Of course, that last one isn't a concern any more. As of Tuesday, we have a high school senior (final year before college/university for my friends in the rest of the world) in the house. Whoo!

Other things going on in my life include the fact that I will probably spend some time this evening baking cookies, because I signed up for a Zoom Pride event: Drag Queen Cookie Decorating.  Apparently, on Friday night, we are making drag queen cookies, not, alas, being taught to bake cookies BY drag queens, but whatever. Out Front Minnesota has sent me a number of Pride Event notifications and, while I almost never went to a lot of Pride events now that it's become so commercialized, I am super down for queer baking.

The other thing is that [personal profile] rachelmanija put out a call for submissions for her charity anthology (https://rachelmanija.dreamwidth.org/2377903.html)  to benefit Outright Action International and I have answered. In fact, I wrote about 2,000 words already so I should have zero problem making the October 1 deadline. Although, as is my custom these days, I have informed Mason that I have a deadline, so that he can start nagging me about whether or not I am writing. I'm actually having way too much for with this and that's kind of new? I have really been struggling to write ANYTHING during the pandemic/riots and so I guess that's a big THANK YOU to Rachel for inspiring me.

How have y'all been?
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...don't make the mistake I did and read it, okay?

Spare yourselves.

She's just being shitty again. It is so very tone deaf, too. As many people have pointed out, that to take umbrage (and yes, I use that word ironically here) over a headline which isn't even about her (she's my age, 50/50 she's still having a period,) at a time when it is Pride month and, even as the call for justice for George Floyd has gone unanswered many #BLM activists are refocusing their efforts to center black trans lives, is just PETTY and hurtful and beyond the Pale.

In fact, I don't want to waste any more time on it. 

In other news, Mason is actually staying home today from volunteering. He woke up feeling a tiny bit under the weather and, since he is scheduled to go get another COVID test at 3:30 pm today, he decided to just skip the actual heavy labor in favor of considering getting his brain scraped as his volunteer work for the day. I should note, for the record, Mason didn't put it that way. That's my framing. Mason is too much of a true paladin to think that way. He is very, very willing to be tested every day, if need be, so that he can volunteer with a clean conscious KNOWING that not he's asymptomatic and passing on the virus while trying to HELP people. That would crush him.

It seems to be a day of false starts as I started out thinking today was a day that Shawn and I might venture into a fabric store, but she also woke up feeling crummy, though in her case it is a sign she is about to get a migraine.  Instead, our only plans for the day now are getting Mason in for his test... and probably I should feed my two sickies. 

It's supposed to get up to 93 F / 34 F today, which, to me, is just gross. So, I may set up the sprinkler in the back yard to keep my poor shade plants from wilting in despair, despite all the lovely evening storms we've had lately.  In a surprise to me, I discovered one of our climbing roses had bloomed.

pink blooms against a screen... also what is on the leaves? Some kind of insect damage?
Image: pink blooms against a screen window... also what is n the leaves? Insect damage?

To be fair, these roses have been struggling. I had to cut out a ton of dead wood this year, but I have likewise been rewarded with a ton of new sprouts of new roses. I have hope for a full recovery. However, this one bloom is on the end of a very old branch that I left because it was showing signs of life yet. I am not surprised it might be susceptible to insects. It can't be very healthy, in general.

When it was cooler on Saturday, Shawn and I made rhubarb-strawberry jam and a lovely rhubarb-strawberry pie:

A pie with a lattice-work top
Image: bubbling red pile with lattice-work top. The crust looks dark because it is slathered in cinnamon-sugar.

Mmmmm, is it too early for pie? IT IS NEVER TOO EARLY FOR PIE! 

So, that's us in a nutshell. Nothing too exciting. How's by you?
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 I've finally decided to try my hand at a butter-folded danish. This is one of those things like making croissants at home that I would normally leave to the experts because it is picky and time-consuming.  But, the pandemic really has me in CHALLENGE ACCEPTED mode. 

In fact, just the other day, we made tortilla wraps from scratch... and now we may never go back. I did not know tortillas could be light and flaky!  I will happily post the recipe to that if people are interested, but, be warned, we have a tortilla press. You can, apparently, roll them out by hand, but.... with the press I only have to roll them out a little and then they end up looking almost exactly like store-bought.  We also have a really nice round griddle to finish them off on, so we may have some advantages that your kitchen might not.

It's raining in St. Paul today, a nice soaking rain. 

I realized, looking back on it, that I had said that I had planted 'cover' seeds yesterday. That is true, but the majority of the seeds are actually CLOVER, though I also tossed in something colloquially known as 'self-heal' or 'heal-all' on the ground as well, as my bee resources (namely the University of Minnesota's bee pages) told me that the bees like those.  The internet informs me that, if I get a good crop, I could also eat it. myself.... hmmm, hopefully, it won't come to that. Self-heal/heal-all is apparently also a home for a specific butterfly's eggs (clouded sulfur butterfly), so that would be cool if it takes off.  (Prunella vulgaris: https://www.wildflower.org/plants/result.php?id_plant=prvu).

I'm just not interested in mowing and now that I can post signs that say "Excuse the Mess, It's for the Bees!" I am doing that EVERYWHERE.  

...

Okay the pastries came out of the oven. I nailed the butter/puff pastry from scratch thing, but failed presentation. They look like angry blobs of jelly. But, they are really, really tasty. 

very blurry angry pastries
I am an angry pastry, mes ami!  I should be beautiful because I am delicious, but no, I am a blob of mess! Sacre bleu!
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 I promised [personal profile] dreamshark  that I would post any pictures of things that I've made from the cookbooks that she gave me from her big clean-out. So, this weekend, I made a rye bread from The Enchanted Broccoli Forest.

Lovely, round, very brown loaves of extremely delicious bread
Image: two lovely round, extremely delicious dark rye loaves cooling on an accordion rack.


I followed the recipe fairly closely, except that since I have Vera, the sourdough starter, at my disposal, I hived off a cup of her and added it to the mix. I will admit to being somewhat distrusting of the sour dough, so, where the recipe called for two packages of active dry yeast, I still put in one. I know, I need to trust Vera. Thing is, we had a somewhat disastrous attempt at sourdough donuts on Saturday. They did not rise nearly enough... and so we ended up with fairly leaden donuts. Good flavor, but so chewy and dense as to be ALMOST unappetizing--we still ate almost all of them, of course.

they look like donuts but are actually dense like rocks
Image: they look like decent donuts, but they're secretly trying to break your dental work.


So, I didn't trust. Listen, Lyda's Lead Bread has been a thing of far distant past and I would very much like to keep it that way.

When I first started making bread, I did probably every thing wrong at one time or another, but Shawn (my only family at the time) would still bravely try my failures. We started calling anything I made with yeast Lyda's Lead Bread. It made me laugh enough to keep at it, keep trying. The truth is, now that I'm where I'm at, I am secretly very embarrassed by those early loaves and very proud of my current prowess. So, if this sour dough experiment is to continue, I'm either going to have to keep cheating or abandon it, entirely.

I was tagged on a Facebook post today citing the "cult" of sourdough, as in, someone lumped me in with all the people who are extolling the virtues of wild yeast.  I guess I approach this cult the way I would any new religion, with much skepticism. I'm just not convinced in the miracle of the wild yeast. I am happy to have seen results in my starter, but after that...? I have yet to become a true convert. In fact, I am definitely seeing the down side of sourdough. Everyone is talking about how yeast is basically free, so it's an easy way around the yeast shortage. But, NO ONE is talking about how much flour you have to feed your starter on a regular basis. I'm at the point where I can safely put Vera in the fridge and only feed her once a week, but previous to this? I was supposed to be throwing away half the starter and adding hot water and flour every day. It's starting to be fine, because I've been using the discarded half to make daily bread, but before it was ready I was throwing it away because it wasn't good for anything yet. We have a flour shortage here, too, although I did see flour making a comeback at Kowalskis.

Enough of that.

The other thing I wanted to talk about is the postal service. There is a thing going around various social media platforms suggesting that we all do our part to try to keep the post office afloat by buying postage stamps. I have no idea if that would really be enough to get them through another fiscal year, but I highly recommend this, regardless. There are some really neat stamps out there. [personal profile] naomikritzer  sent me a link to the T-Rex forever stamps and so I will pass it on to you: https://store.usps.com/store/product/buy-stamps/tyrannosaurus-rex-S_479204?fbclid=IwAR0W8EkhwUH3NqoxWzTJ7-zNZX_OrFppwXtfbB9umAPyx21Ne-VyQ66_gZ4 

Also, this is your regular reminder that if you need someone to write to with those fancy new stamps you're buying, I am always willing to be the one.  Just drop me a PM or email at: lyda.morehouse@gmail.com with your snail mail and I will send you a long letter and probably a very weird card. I have a huge collection of greeting cards that I have picked up over the years from estate sales. Not to mention very fun, cute stationary from Taiwan, courtesy of [personal profile] jiawen .   

I was also going to do the pandemic meme that was going around, but perhaps another day.

I hope you all are doing well.


lydamorehouse: (Bazz-B)
 First of all, I would like to welcome sourdough starter, Vera, to our family...

a bubbly, sour-smelling gift from the goddess
Image: a bubbly, sour-smelling gift from the goddess....

I am here to tell you that Naomi is absolutely correct about the abundance of wild yeast in Minneapolis/St. Paul. This stuff was actively bubbling within three days. 

You may be wondering about the name.  Interestingly several of the cookbooks that I consulted for a recipe to start the starter suggested that it was traditional to name your starter once it begins to show signs of life.  First of all, it is, in fact alive... and needs to be fed, daily, on a schedule. Secondly, apparently the yeast that you have captured is UNIQUE to you and your household. So, this really is, in many ways, your baby. Though, Shawn and I have decided to think of our yeast not quite so much like a baby (though I did make a birth announcement on Facebook, because I am silly,) but as an old auntie that has come to live with us, since this is such an ancient tradition. Hence the name Vera. Yes, we named it after the BBC detective, but it's also just an old-fashioned name to our ears.  

I am fascinated by all the things that seem to be true. When it started to bubble it really did smell pleasantly sour. When it wants to be fed, however? STINKS. And, then the instant you feed it? Back to smelling lovely and tasty.  

Ironically (?), fortuitously (?),  the day that Vera here started to bubble, our across-the-street neighbors texted us to offer up a loaf of Jonas's sourdough.  Jonas has been practicing and perfecting his sourdough for months. We have been consistently been offered his second loaf (most recipes make two). Yesterday's loaf? AMAZING. He's really hit is stride. I may be texting him for tips and tricks once my starters is ready to bake with.

We have been trading in baked goods (and other pandemic needs, like a can of tomato paste and some pry bars for a home improvement project they started.) Since both of us have "air-lock" porches, we can do no-contact drop-offs very easily. I've never been happier that I am an extrovert and made fast-friends with them the moment they moved in. Jonas is a university professor of economics, a recent immigrant from Sweden, and Cherylynn has a PhD is some science, and is working with the Department of Health, I believe. Midway is the kind of neighborhood that appeals to professors (we have a Hamline anthropology professor and her artist husband to the north of us) because we are convenient to a lot of the local universities and we are cheap as hell because the houses are modest and tend to sell to working class folks and we have a number of rent-controlled apartments/duplexes, too.

In fact, I took a few pictures of some of the houses near us yesterday for Facebook. We didn't go very far from home because Shawn was feeling headachey. She got her first cluster headache of the stay-at-home order, alas. Interesting that it's been the longest in-between stretch. I think, even though there's stressful stuff at work, there's something about being home that has reduced some trigger or other. 

Lastly, I thought I would show off the progress I have made on my anxiety quilt.

It is now large enough to hide under:

lyda hiding under the craziest of crazy quilts
Image: Lyda hiding under the craziest of crazy quilts.

I added another line of squares and rectangles last night and when I pointed out to my family how AMAZINGLY crooked I'd stitched it, Mason just smiled and said, "Lyda Morehouse: putting the crazy back in crazy quilt."

I feel this perfectly encapsulates my crafting style.  It is now my new motto.

So, that's me, in a nutshell. How are things where you are? Everyone staying well/well enough? Getting enough sleep? 
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 Today is my wife's birthday! 

This is real, not a joke. In fact, one of the reasons I never, ever participate in April Fool's is because Shawn HATES the fact that her birthday is known as a day to trick people. There's apocrypha in her family that when she was born, her then-teenage brothers were left in charge of calling people with the news and no one believed she was really born (and not a joke) for days.  :-(

So, we are making blueberry pie today and I broke the governor's stay-at-home order to venture out for coffee for everyone from my favorite coffee shop. Shawn really loves their homemade chai, so it was a birthday treat. It was also good to support Claddaugh, though they were doing a brisk business from what I could tell. A lot of folks who are still having to head to work stopped by for a coffee, curbside delivered. If local peeps are curious how to support them during this time, I believe they are offering gift cards and such on their website: http://www.claddaghcoffeecafe.com/

Shawn did take the day off work. Sounds weird, considering that she's working at home, but that means no checking e-mail, no opening up the work computer for the whole day. She put on pants today, but only because I think she still wants to go for our usual walk. (It's sunny AGAIN!)

I've been continuing to post pictures of the funky, fun old houses here in Saint Paul that we pass on our walk. As my friend [personal profile] naomikritzer sent me on twitter:

tweet that talks about pictures of walks and food as part of lesbian culture
Text: A tweet from Sophie Gadd: "my entire Instagram has pivoted to people posting pics of solitary walks, baking bread, and stews they are making and honestly I just want to warmly welcome you all to lesbian culture." Naomi's reply: "(Made me think of you, obviously!)

That made me smile, so I thought I would share it with you all.


lydamorehouse: (crazy eyed Renji)
 black cat peeking over purple plaid blanket
Image: Void cat peeking over a purple plaid blanket.

It's difficult to get work done in these conditions. I believe this co-worker may be flirting with me. 

Yesterday was sunny, at least. Shawn and I went for a long walk around the fancy neighborhoods of St. Paul. I took a ton of house pictures again. So many, in fact, that a lady out walking with her dog and child (safely across the street from us) yelled out to ask if we were new to this area. I yelled back that we were playing tourist in our own town and that I absolutely adored the architecture of Saint Paul and that seemed to make her happy because she yelled back that "now was a good time to do that."  We later watched her go into one of the lovely houses, so I'm sure she was actually very worried that we were out casing the neighborhood. Though, how you would think we were up to no good with Shawn and I loudly blathering about dormers and other such house features, I don't know.

Mason was funny, too. He had us drop him off at the top Summit, near the Cathedral, and told us that he wanted to see if he could find his way home. He must have been walking for four hours, but I am happy to report that he did, in fact, find his way home. He loves a long, long walk, so that was good for his soul, too, I think. 

I probably won't post the house pictures here unless someone begs me.  If we go out again today, I will take more, however, because I think people who are scrolling through Facebook really need relief from coronavirus updates.

I was able to poke a bit a fiction yesterday, too, which was lovely. I didn't get a lot written, but I did commit words to page. It's kind of a break-through, honestly.

Wyrdsmiths, my writers' group, had an impromptu Google Hangout, which worked pretty well... though, like everyone, we are still working out some of the virtual hiccups. But, we got four out of six folks to join and it was lovely to hear everyone's voices again and find out how they're all coping. Turns out my phone works perfectly well for all of this, though I am still sorely in need of a new computer, as mine has a "best if used by" date of 1999.  :-/

We will probably take our government stimulus money and spend it on new computers all around.

Anyway, that's me today.  

I made a pretty amazing bread yesterday, a French boule, for dinner. The dinner was otherwise underwhelming. I had picked up some pre-made chicken Kiev from Kowalski's that I liked the spices of... but the rest of my family really didn't. However, we had baked potatoes and asparagus on the side which were darned good.

smol crusty loaf
Image: smol, crusty loaf

We will at least eat like kings for the apocalypse!  Tonight, I have to pick up some cabbage during our afternoon walk, so that we can have potsickers tonight. Yum, yum!

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 The other thing I plan to do is bake my way through the coronavirus. 

brown bread in classic loaf pan
Image: brown bread in a traditional loaf pan. Looks are deceiving, however, this bread is NOT wholesome or healthy, it is 99.9% BUTTER.

One of the things we bought a lot of when we were apocalypse shopping was flour (and butter, as it happens,) and so I decided I should try to hone/improve my "family loaf" skills. I feel more than confident with my ability to make a show stopping French loaf, but I have often been stymied by basic sandwich bread. 

Because we have five-thousand vintage cookbooks around the house, I pulled out a Pillsbury bread bake-off one from 1968 and started looking for basic/fun breads to try.  This one was called Herb Butter Bread, I think. But, it's basically a regular milk-based bread loaf recipe but halfway through the process, you slather on an herb butter (mine had basil, garlic cloves, and a hint of cayenne), roll it up like a cinnamon loaf, and then let it do its second rising in the pan. This thing has so much butter (and Crisco) in it that it's insanely flaky and delicious. Plus, there is NO NEED for extra butter. 

It would be amazing for sandwiches if only because it's already so flavorful, you could just top it with a slice of cheese and go. 

The nice thing about it is that a person could put whatever spices they wanted into the butter mixture. So, if you wanted something less garlicky you could substitute in onions or caraway or whatever your favorite flavors are. The dough isn't super sweet, so you could probably even make it into a desert bread, if you wanted. 

It makes two loaves.

BUTTERFLAKE HERB LOAF

4 1/2 to 5 1/2 cups of flour
1/4 cup sugar
3 teaspoons salt (which I would consider reducing or maybe sub in unsalted butter?)
1 packet (2 and 1/4 teaspoons) of active dry yeast
1 1/4 cups of milk (I divided this, and put 1/4 warm water in with the yeast to get it percolating)
1/3 cup of shortening
2 eggs

Herb butter:
1/2 cup of butter
spices (I used basil, cayenne pepper, and 3 cloves of garlic, minced.)

OVEN 350 degrees (F)
In large mixer bowl, combing 2 cups of flour, sugar, salt and dry yeast (I added the 1/4 cup of warm water at this point). In saucepan, heat milk and shortening until milk is warm. (Shortening does not need to melt.) Add eggs and warm milk to the flour mixture. Blend at lowest speed until moistened (and/or us a dough hook on a mixer). By hand, stir in remaining flour to form a smooth ball. Knead on floured surface until smooth and elastic, about 3 minutes. (I used my dough hook so only really needed to shape it at this point.)

Place in greased bowl, turning to grease top. (More butter! Yum!)

Cover and let rise in a warm place until light and doubled in size, 1 to 1 1/2 hours.

Punch down dough. Divide dough in half. Roll out one portion of dough on a lightly floured surface. Spread on half of the Herb Butter. Roll up towards you, shape into a loaf. Seal ends and place, seam-side down, in greased 9 x 5 loaf pan. Repeat with remaining dough. Cover and let dough rise until it reaches the top of the pan and corners are filled, 1 to 1 1/2 hours.

Bake at 350 degrees for 30 to 35 minutes until golden brown. (I brushed my top with a bit of olive oil.) 




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 ...than using up my leftover homemade French bread for bread pudding.  I don't know why, I probably should feel more like someone who lived through the Depression (Captain America?).  

For those following along, it's a bazillion degrees below zero here. Mason's school is cancelled AGAIN for tomorrow. As he pointed out, now the only day he will have school is Friday and then it will be the weekend again. He says, "It's going to feel less like going back to school and more like a break in my winter vacation."

It's been lovely to have both him and Shawn home. We've done a whole lot of nothing all day; none of us is out of our PJs and it's 5:37 pm.  I did some stamping, but mostly I've been cooking and eating... and napping. I really have to say that this cold weather is working for me. I'm also really glad that several local businesses have taken it upon themselves to close. My coffee shop closed. The postal workers didn't try to deliver. People who could, should stay home, inside, and warm.

In less lovely news, my Loft class was officially cancelled.  I was really looking forward to it, but alas. I only got 4 people interested. (Worse, we could have used the money. Ah well.)

On the other hand, Broad Universe is trying out a mentoring program, and I signed up to be a mentor. I've got myself a mentee, and we've started working together. By chance, she's written a fantasy novel involving the sidhe and Irish politics. Considering that I wrote something similar (my first novel, which got weirdly published via a pay-as-you-go outfit: https://tapas.io/series/sidhepromised), I'm VERY excited by her novel.  So, that's a yay. 

I am reading something, but I'm not enjoying it. I decided to try to pick up the books that are up for the Philip K. Dick award and I started Claire North's newest book 84K. I'm... not much liking the fact that she leaves sentences trailing off, unfinished, and there are a LOT of fragments and fragmented scenes. I'm not QUITE ready to give up on it, but, man. It's tough going.

What are you reading this fine Wednesday?

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Though not by too many days!

Hello, hello! How's things? I don't have a huge amount to report. Friday was the day of forgetting things. I was just leaving the coffee shop when I got a text from Mason. He forgot his iPad at home. So, I headed home, picked it up, and then went back to school. As I was half way to school, he wanted to know if I could also grab earbuds? But I didn't get that in time to double back. I left his iPad with the school but then remembered we might have earbuds in the car, so I quick texted Mason to come back and grab them. He'd already headed back, but was able to turn around. That was all before 8 am!

Then, when I was getting ready to go to the coffee shop, I got a call from some guy trying to sell us on a paint job that made me unreasonably angry for various reasons, and I was so wound up about that that I brought my cord to the coffee shop, but forgot my laptop. I think that worked out okay, however, because it meant I was less distracted during the conversation we had about a story that [personal profile] naomikritzer was writing, which opened up a lot of interesting questions to me (none of which she was actually writing about, but hey) like: what's it like to know you're related to a criminal or a murderer (which I am) and any number of similarly fascinating philosophical questions.

What else... oh! Shawn finally watched "Infinity War" and we all saw "Solo." We ended up doing two movies because "Infinity War" was such a downer AND I had earlier tilted during a game of "Trivial Pursuit" that spilled over into another little snip. "Solo" was just what the doctor order. Y'all think it sucked, but I thought it was fine--entertaining, even.

Saturday Mason worked and I had my first session of a new Star Trek RPG game with a bunch of friends: [personal profile] jiawen [personal profile] bcholmes John T., and Sabs. MUCH FUN. As I've said earlier, I haven't role-played for some time and I had so much fun I ended up writing fan fic (in the form of my character's personal log) about our adventure.

Sunday we spent the day hanging out. Mason had an in-person D&D game, Shawn made a disastrous pie (it was a cannoli pie). Shawn notes that the "Idea" of the pie was good, but the flavor didn't suit us (me less than her). I did a lot of stamping, which I enjoyed.

This morning I woke and chatted a bit more with [personal profile] jiawen about life and the super, blood, wolf moon eclipse. Most of which I missed, because I CAN NOT with the late nights now that I'm old. (Shut up. 11 pm is late for me, okay??) Anyway, chatting with [personal profile] jiawen always fun, we can talk about anything for hours.

Then I did a lot of cooking. I tried to make cheesy puffy ball bread things, but they collapse. They were tasty though!

my sad cheese things

Very much like eggy popovers, which was fine since we ate them with lunch (spaghetti) with a hot marinara sauce dip.

Then we decided to have a big chicken roast, so I started roasting the bird around 1:30 pm, made mashed potatoes, brussel sprouts, corn, cheddar bay biscuits (from a box), and chicken gravy. I managed the timing pretty darn perfectly, if I do say so myself, and the meal was a huge success.

So. LOTS of food today.

I managed to mostly keep up with my spells over the intervening days. I will give you a series of quick updates under the cut. I will note that I did spend the day after the DOWN THE DRAIN money spell, undoing it, and decided that was enough of a spell-of-the-day for that day, since it was supposed to be a day to get rid of something.

Spell-a-Day Project (Jan 18 & 19) )


Spell-a-Day (Jan 20) )
lydamorehouse: (writer??)
 gingerbread people "trapped" inside glass jar

I see that the last thing I reported was that gingerbread cookies were on the agenda for Thursday night. I am happy to report, they were made. We have successfully captured the gingerbread people (including the rare cyclops ninja)  and trapped them inside this cookie jar.  Resistance is futile.

As you can see, we had too much fun decorating these. Initially, I thought I'd stay out of the kitchen and let Maria and Shawn catch up. Maria is a former colleague of Shawn's. She used to work at the Minnesota History Center, but has now moved on to records management, maybe? (I wasn't entirely paying attention early on), at Thrivenet, formerly Lutheran Brotherhood.  BUT, when it was clear that what they wanted to do was drink wine and chat, I let them settle into that and did the rolling and baking. At this point, it's second nature to me, so I could join in the chat while getting things together.

When the cookies were cooled, everyone did the decorating.  

I had bought the "googly' eyes from Micheal's along with a bunch of other odd edible bits, including lips and mustaches--they all came in a packet for a couple of bucks. I also bought a few frosting tubes because I was there and decided that I was feeling too lazy to do the frosting from scratch on top of everything else.

They're quite whimsical, so I'm very happy with them.

Tasty, too.

I got together with the usual crew on Friday afternoon, except for Eleanor, who was off getting her hair cut. [personal profile] pegkerr brought along her holiday cards to label and stamp. It's interesting to note that Peg's family has always done a Christmas family newsletter. She and I had both come across recent articles talking about how fewer people are writing these sorts of things any more and how this is a concern for historians, as sources of 'mundane' life.  The article I had read was from the Smithsonian and was called "The History of Our Love-Hate Relationship with the Christmas Letter".

I happen to enjoy a well written holiday letter, myself. But, given that I still enjoy the long form of blogging, that's probably not a surprise.

But, otherwise, we were all fairly low-key on Friday. [personal profile] naomikritzer is still, in many ways, recovering from her trip to Taiwan and China. And, I think we were all suffering from a lack of sunshine (though it's been more sunny here starting on Friday. Previously it had been gray with gray sauce.). These dark nights have been tough on me. I'm already an early to bed sort and when it's dark at 5:30 pm, I think, "Okay, great! Time for bed!" Except, yeah, it's like 5:30 pm.

Saturday was a busy day for our family. I took Mason into his job at the Science Museum at 10 am. I was able to say "hello"/"goodbye" on a hangout with [personal profile] jiawen , but then had to take off to go to Mason's work's "open house" that they had scheduled from noon to 2 pm. The Science Museum is not normally more than 10 minutes from our house, but we have gotten in the habit (thank goodness) of leaving a bit earlier because it always seems that there is something happening at the Xcel Center. Saturday seemed to be no exception. There was a Minnesota Wild (our hockey team) game happening and we ended up having to pay $20 for parking. (Outrage! Except, that Shawn pointed out that we could think of it as a donation to the Science Museum, which we happily support in all of its endeavors.)  

The open house was cool.

The program that Mason works for is called KAYSC, which stands for the Kitty Andersen Youth Science Center. They're a nifty little organization that focuses on bringing STEM (science, technology, engineering, math) skills to high schoolers in underserved communities. Mason goes to one of their target high schools, which is how he ended up able to apply. Washington Technical has a predominantly Asian-American student body, with Caucasian students making up only 6%. At KAYSC, Mason gets an opportunity to get paid to learn STEM and project management skills, with a focus on using the sciences to served local communities--something the KAYSC people call "STEM Justice," which is a term I adore. Honest to gods, I would have killed to have a job like this when I was Mason's age. Heck, I'd love one like this _now_.  

At the open house, we got to see some of the areas of interest that the students had identified for themselves. They had set-up various presentations (some static/interactive displays, a couple of video programs, and one tour). I wanted to do the tour, because they were going to talk about gentrification, but we also didn't want to miss the big team reveal at the end of the open house, where Mason would find out which project leader he would be assigned to. They have four "tracks." There's an environmental sciences and sustainability one, which is where Mason ended up, a Engineering and Design, a Biological Sciences and Public Health, and a Media and Technology one. There were some really well put together displays, including Mason's which focused on stereotypes in storytelling.  I was also really impressed with a team that had micro greens growing and talked about ways in which low-income houses could cheaply incorporate more nutrient rich foods.  Another group has a display about the problems GLBTQIA+ students have in high school.  

So you can see the sorts of things they focus on.
 
Mason seems very happy with the assignment. Engineering and Design had been his first pick, but Environmental Science was his second. Given that he has an engineering track at his high school, I imagine they factored that into their decision where he might learn the most.  Because, getting serious, this job is 100% about getting paid to learn, which is why it is SO awesome and probably the best first job any high schooler could hope for. 

But, the event was high energy and full of people moving around and OMG, even this extrovert needed a NAP after that. 

Mason, meanwhile, had us stop at home to pick up some gaming stuff and headed over to his friend's house to play D&D with his robotics crew. He was there, with them, until almost 10 pm. 

Shawn and I came back and collapsed into a heap, but we got back up to make homemade pizza for dinner. Shawn had a work holiday party at a house on Summit Avenue (fancy!) which I bowed out of for a bunch of reasons, but not the least of which was that I am staring up some RPGing of my own. 

I had such a lovely time doing a Star Trek: Discovery one-shot with [personal profile] jiawen and [personal profile] bcholmes at CONfabulous this last year, that we decided to try to make it a regular thing. We spent Saturday night rolling up our characters, and I'm already very happy to watch everyone's character histories comes through my e-mail feed. We're doing this online, as our players are scattered across the globe. I'm looking forward to the campaign beginning in earnest. It's been some time since I had a regular gaming group... probably college, which is going on 30 years ago. Though to be fair, I did keep up with some folks a few years after that, so let's call it 25 years ago?

Even so, that's a long time ago.

I had gone cold-turkey from gaming about the time I started concentrating on novel writing as a career because, for me, I felt it used a lot of the same mental muscles. I felt I could EITHER use those muscles to write _or_ RPG. I'm not sure I was right about that, however--I know a lot of pro writers who could do both.

But, that was the choice I made. 

I'm excited to get back into it, regardless. I also love that in the twenty-five or so intervening years the demographics have flipped. The STRONG majority of us are women (4/5ths). There's only one guy gaming with us. That's amazing. I can't wait to find out what that's like. In the past I was always the only woman or one of a very few... I met my wife gaming, but we drifted together partly _because_ there weren't many women in that campaign... though I think there was at LEAST one other. (To be fair, it was actually love at first sight, since when she asked me to draw her character and said that they should have blonde hair and brown eyes, I told her I thought that was an unusual combination, and she said, 'that's what I am,' and I looked up and literally said, "Oh. You have the most beautiful eyes I have EVER seen." So, you know....)

Anyway. I'm not sure exactly what happened on Sunday, except that Mason and I got into a hormone fueled bickering session that ended with us marathoning several hours of the new Super Smash Bros, Ultimate game on the Switch in order to work it out (which we did. Gaming as therapy is real in the house of hormones, which is what we call our house as Mason is in puberty and Shawn and I are both in various stages of menopause.)

So, that's me. How's by you?
lydamorehouse: (Bazz-B)
 ...I turn to baking.

Shawn really likes to have a LOT of cookies around for the holidays. Not only are they nice to trot out for our usual Thanksgiving guests, but also they are a Sustaining sort of Smackerel to get us Minnesotans through the dark months.  This weekend, we made: Snickerdoodles and Pizelles (Saturday). Nutmeg teacakes, the dough for date cookies, and "failed" pecan tassies were made on Sunday. 

Kowalski's had a whole cut-up chicken on sale, so I made a big roast with mash potatoes, gravy, and green beans. I also made my first French bread loaf of the season.

two very plump French loaves in a curved metal pan

The recipe I use technically makes four, more traditionally skinny baguettes, but I like my bread to be like me: fat and stout.  So, I have always only made two loaves from the recipe, that's why they are not especially baguette-looking. 

They sure are tasty, though.

And, ah... but the eating was gooooooood 
lydamorehouse: (ichigo freaked)
We always say we're going to clean the house on Sunday, but inevitably we end up cooking a ton of food. Shawn woke up this morning and wanted kuchen (edits because Shawn read this and said, no, change the link to reflect North Dakota German's from Russia kuchen.)  Mason wanted to make an apple pie for his girlfriend, so we all made that together.

An apple pie, freshly baked, with cut-outs of stars in the crust

Then, just as I finished the dishes from all of those, Mason announced he wanted Scotch Eggs for breakfast... so we went to the meat market and I made those as well.

Tonight, we're going to grill out.

I kept saying to my family, "Good thing I'm trying to cut down on my cholesterol! Hand me another Scotch Egg!"  Yep. Ah, well. My only comfort is that I spent a large part of the afternoon raking up a [bleep]-ton of leaves that somehow we always have in our yard in the spring (and literally no one else ever seems to. Maybe we're the yard that everyone's blown leaves end up in.)

Yesterday, when we ALSO had plans to clean the house, we ended up estate and rummage sale-ing.  That was a lot of fun.  Shawn and I used to spend a lot of weekend mornings estate sale-ing.  We spent all of $26.00 and came home with some plates, a few odds and ends, more fabric for her rugs, and an exercise bike.  :-)

The coolest venue we stopped at was St. Clement's Church.

St. Clements Church in St. Paul

The rummage sale was in the basement, but they had their sanctuary open to the public:

interior church sanctuary

The church building is on the national historic registry. It was really very lovely. An okay sale, though my latest goal at these things is to see if anyone is giving away decent stationary.  It's not really the sort of thing you find very often, so that makes it especially fun to try to hunt for.  I did find a few cards at the church that weren't too religious, so that's a bit of a find.

How was your weekend?

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