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I am not planning on attending CONvergence this year. There are several factors that went into my decision. I am ready to do a lot of socialization, finally, but.... not with three thousand people, indoors. But, on top of that August is generally going to be a crazy month for me because we will be sending Mason off to Connecticut for school (Wesleyan University, for those who are interested.) 

When they made their decision to go in-person, I was asked if I wanted badges for me and Mason and I told them just what I told you. Next year, I'll be up for it, but this year I am taking a pass for reasons of COVID + College. 

Somehow the message didn't quite get through? Possibly because, long ago, I also filled out volunteer form? I did so, however, when there was still talk of possibly hybrid, we don't know. 

A couple days ago my panel assignments arrived.

They both looked great? I would happily done both of them (and more) in any other year. And, I re-read the descriptions a bunch of times but there were notes like "panelists should arrive in the room x minutes beforehand," and I started to worry that this was not a virtual room they were talking about, but a physical, in-person one. The biggest clue was that there was no link to a Zoom or any other technical info for an online recording/live-stream.

I hated doing it, because I don't want to get on someone's off list. but I had to say, "If this is in-person, which it seems to be, I am not attending this year.  Please take me off?" 

I feel especially bad about this because, independently, I happened to be part of an earlier email chain of a half dozen people who, when asked if they'd be willing to be a warm body to help save a panel that a friend of mine wanted to turn viable, EVERY single ONE of them also said that they wouldn't be attending in-person this year. Given that experience, I'm also wondering if I killed two panels?  I'm a little worried that they might be having a talent problem--I would find it difficult to believe that CONvergence, of all local cons, couldn't find enough volunteers to sit on panels, but maybe? Especially since they're limiting attendance?

I will say that I was surprised that they didn't do a better job with their online con. Last year, I took part in at least two panels at Virtual CONvergence. One was a live-stream and the other was a recorded reading (which they scheduled opposite one another? They had a full weekend schedule to fill and my fans had literally a single choice, either listen to my reading OR watch me talk, live. I mean, I don't have a lot of fans? But that one person had a tough choice! Which, I mean, I was finally on two panels at once, which is kind of a dream of every author...) But, anyway, that part seemed to be exactly like most on-line cons I'd been to that year, but I found their chat/hangout space to be much harder to navigate. For reasons known only to the con com, CONvergence didn't use one of the pandemic-standard chat platforms, like Discord or Slack. Instead, they had their own web site that you had to remember to go to? I think I went to it once. It's weird when smaller, less structured/organized/well funded cons did a better job with their pandemic cons... and so I very much understand the desire to be back in the venue that they shine in?  

But this also makes me fairly certain that there will not be a hybrid option for CONvergence, which make me sad. I am fond of virtual cons? 

Am I the only who is going to miss them??

Date: 2021-07-15 06:15 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] oracne
I think hybrid cons are a GREAT option for those who can't travel, whether for mobility or other reasons.

You are not a bad person for saying no. You have a right to say no. You said no well in advance; it's their problem they didn't listen.

Date: 2021-07-20 11:29 am (UTC)
oracne: turtle (Default)
From: [personal profile] oracne
Me, either. My workplace is requiring vaccination but not masks, and I'm worried about Delta.

Date: 2021-07-16 06:50 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] boxofdelights
Definitely not! There is so much potential -- mostly unrealized potential, so far, but we're at the beginning!

Sirens is having online book group and community days, which are keeping people connected to the conference and to each other over the year. They should definitely keep those going even when we're not in a pandemic.

Wiscon Concom seems interested in the possibility of a virtual channel alongside an in-person convention.

I don't know if I'll ever get on a plane again but I have hopes for cons!

Date: 2021-07-19 09:57 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] opalsong
Don't feel bad for saying no! You tried to tell them and if they didn't pay attention is isn't your fault. It sucks of course but it isn't your fault. Setting boundaries doesn't make you an asshole.

I was eying up CVG's hybrid option, the one where you can stay in the hotel and still watch panels and request sandbox kits and THAT looked awesome. Especially if it was an option people could combine with online or in person. I'm often tired in the middle of cons (or over peopled) and would love to curl up in a hotel room but still be able to participate. (Obviously I can't use that option this year...borders still being closed and all.)

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