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Rainy Day People
May. 16th, 2017 09:39 am Poor Mason, I think his baseball game is going to get rained out. It's been spontaneously storming on and off all day so far, with no sign of abating. Although it's only 10 am. Maybe something will happen and everything will dry out before 3:30 pm.
He's been really looking forward to this game--well, any game.
In fact, last night Shawn and I took him out to "Play It Again, Sports" and dropped a fairly decent chunk of change on a used baseball bat so that he can continue to practice and play ball this summer. He really, REALLY wants to get good enough to be on the varsity team in high school next year. I'm perfectly wiling to help him practice, but I have the skills of any 50 year old nerd who never played any kind of sport, which is to say: almost none.
I'm really hoping that Mason works up the nerve to ask his teammate Eh-Ku if he would be wiling to get together this summer and practice throwing and hitting and such, but I get what that might be difficult for a thirteen year old boy to manage. Hell, asking people you admire for help learning a thing you don't feel especially good at is hard for anyone of any age.
If nothing else, we found a good batting cage for him to go to. It costs money, but not a huge amount.
I managed to get over to Rachel Hoffman-Dachelet's place to pick up some of the shade plants she was splitting. I got a ton of ostrich feather ferns, which I put in the back border of my fake Japanese garden. (The garden is fake Japanese on two counts. One, I am obviously not Japanese and this is not Japan, but, possibly more importantly, the Zen aesthetic of clean lines is one I can only aspire to, but never achieve. It's kind of anthesis of my basic personality which can be broadly categorized as: loud and messy.) I also put in a whole bunch of wild ginger in a ring around the new rock border I put at the top of the main hill of our front yard. The dirt there is root bound and hard packed, so if any of them live I will be deeply grateful to whatever Nature God(-desses) favor me. I also cleaned up another problem area and planted hosta and some Siberian Irises. (I may have misplaced the irises. I think they need more sun than I gave them.) BUT the idea there is that I'm really trying to work on some areas that are "gateways" into our backyard. Similarly, I put a bunch of stella del'ord day lilies as a border to the other exit/entrance to our backyard.
I worked like a fiend to get everything in the ground last night, and I'm VERY grateful for the downpours this morning for MY sake. Now, I just hope things clear up for Mason's.
We've got a projected high of 83 degrees F (28.3 C) today and I don't know how that could happen without sun. But sun and a muddy field still doesn't do Mason's team much good, alas.
Tonight is my last Loft class. I'm going to miss this crew. They were AMAZING. Like I've been saying, I'm not sure if you can say that I was the best teacher, but, in this case, that's beside the point because what I did for these people is facilitate their workshopping. And, honestly, when you're an intermediate to advanced student, that's all you REALLY need: colleagues at (or above) the same level you are that can push your skills forward. At the advanced/intermediate level the main thing to do is write, critique/get critiqued, send out, and repeat until something hits.
Often the trick is finding a good group, so that's definitely what the Loft provided.... and I happened to be there to help it happen. So, I feel very proud of them, even though I kind of did nothing especially profound.
It's going to be weird to have my Tuesday nights free again. I won't necessarily miss the critique load, though. 60 pages of in-depth critique every week? It's a lot, especially on the weeks when Wyrdsmiths also hands-out (although we met last time without any critique, just to have an industrygossip.... I mean networking meeting. So that wasn't as bad as it could have been.)
I'll have to find something to do with myself on Tuesday nights.... maybe I should try this writing thing for myself, eh?
He's been really looking forward to this game--well, any game.
In fact, last night Shawn and I took him out to "Play It Again, Sports" and dropped a fairly decent chunk of change on a used baseball bat so that he can continue to practice and play ball this summer. He really, REALLY wants to get good enough to be on the varsity team in high school next year. I'm perfectly wiling to help him practice, but I have the skills of any 50 year old nerd who never played any kind of sport, which is to say: almost none.
I'm really hoping that Mason works up the nerve to ask his teammate Eh-Ku if he would be wiling to get together this summer and practice throwing and hitting and such, but I get what that might be difficult for a thirteen year old boy to manage. Hell, asking people you admire for help learning a thing you don't feel especially good at is hard for anyone of any age.
If nothing else, we found a good batting cage for him to go to. It costs money, but not a huge amount.
I managed to get over to Rachel Hoffman-Dachelet's place to pick up some of the shade plants she was splitting. I got a ton of ostrich feather ferns, which I put in the back border of my fake Japanese garden. (The garden is fake Japanese on two counts. One, I am obviously not Japanese and this is not Japan, but, possibly more importantly, the Zen aesthetic of clean lines is one I can only aspire to, but never achieve. It's kind of anthesis of my basic personality which can be broadly categorized as: loud and messy.) I also put in a whole bunch of wild ginger in a ring around the new rock border I put at the top of the main hill of our front yard. The dirt there is root bound and hard packed, so if any of them live I will be deeply grateful to whatever Nature God(-desses) favor me. I also cleaned up another problem area and planted hosta and some Siberian Irises. (I may have misplaced the irises. I think they need more sun than I gave them.) BUT the idea there is that I'm really trying to work on some areas that are "gateways" into our backyard. Similarly, I put a bunch of stella del'ord day lilies as a border to the other exit/entrance to our backyard.
I worked like a fiend to get everything in the ground last night, and I'm VERY grateful for the downpours this morning for MY sake. Now, I just hope things clear up for Mason's.
We've got a projected high of 83 degrees F (28.3 C) today and I don't know how that could happen without sun. But sun and a muddy field still doesn't do Mason's team much good, alas.
Tonight is my last Loft class. I'm going to miss this crew. They were AMAZING. Like I've been saying, I'm not sure if you can say that I was the best teacher, but, in this case, that's beside the point because what I did for these people is facilitate their workshopping. And, honestly, when you're an intermediate to advanced student, that's all you REALLY need: colleagues at (or above) the same level you are that can push your skills forward. At the advanced/intermediate level the main thing to do is write, critique/get critiqued, send out, and repeat until something hits.
Often the trick is finding a good group, so that's definitely what the Loft provided.... and I happened to be there to help it happen. So, I feel very proud of them, even though I kind of did nothing especially profound.
It's going to be weird to have my Tuesday nights free again. I won't necessarily miss the critique load, though. 60 pages of in-depth critique every week? It's a lot, especially on the weeks when Wyrdsmiths also hands-out (although we met last time without any critique, just to have an industry
I'll have to find something to do with myself on Tuesday nights.... maybe I should try this writing thing for myself, eh?