i will show up tonight and if it is just the two of us, we can just chat.

my FB page is so tightly curated and my posts are only visible to friends. i had to mute a few groups, but otherwise, it's all sympathetic and going okay. i know that's not everyone's experience, though. i have a login on bluesky--i'd need to look it up, though. but when i visited there, it seemed very empty--maybe it's filling up now.

i am still in taking care of other people mode--my awful days will come, but right now i have energy to hold some hands so hands are being held.