Hahaha, yes. "I can not find this window you speak of" = cishet men.

And, yeah, it went pretty well, all and all. We have made plans to stay in touch with Shawn's step-sister, which is, of course, the big danger now that Margaret isn't there to draw us back to Valparaiso. I'm going to start writing snail mail to her (with no pressure for return mail), which is something that is easy for me, for whatever reason. But, I think it will help us stay connected. Plus, it's a good way to honor Margaret, who I also wrote to regularly until her eyesight completely failed.